I am asking, in good faith, what extra steps I am expected to be taking here, because yes, I am claiming that I don’t associate with misogynists or people who promote such misinformation. If the actual answer is “read a bunch of books on the subject” then maybe that’s what I need to do? But I find it extraordinarily unlikely that it will reveal that people I interact with are secretly misogynist in ways that I can actionably address.