• maria [she/her]@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
    16·
    4 days ago

    i feel like when id top,… id… go less into harhar ur mine *aggressive evil top laughter*
    but more into hehe ur mine >v< and like— id strap my subbie to the bed but like - with bows and stuff and like- id make them look all pretty and stuff—

    and id ask way too many times if they r oki with it.

    and then i would like- get in a cuddling mood instead and just huggie for a while until i realize they… probably want something else so i gotta switch gears… and i may have difficulties with that.

    whatever–

    EDIT: no, not whatever! hi its me after writing this comment and wowie i got so excited writing that >o<
    my giggedy gosh.
    anyway have a hot cocoa ~ ☕🍫

    • SharkWeek@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
      4·
      4 days ago

      lol, lots of tops like to be pampered like that from time to time.

      Give them a nice massage, maybe tickle them a bit, cuddle, etc.

    • sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
      1·
      3 days ago

      Yeah, being in the physically most prominent role, and being in the mentally dominant role… not the same thing.

      You could also be a ‘power bottom’, where you’re receiving, but you’re mentally and physically dominant in the encounter.

      You could also basically be bullied into being a ‘service bottom’, though I’m not sure that’s a widely used phrase.

      Also, if you were doing something like cowgirl, as a service bottom… well you’d physically be on top of them.

      You see this is all very straightforward and not at all confusing.