reasons i may be trans (ftm)

  • i kind of want to become a guy
  • i fantasised once about my mother telling me how i’ve grown up into such a cute boy
  • i sometimes fantasise about injecting t into myself
  • i look into the mirror and i almost see a guy (maybe im just delusional 😭)

reasons i may not be trans

  • im not dysphoric, im fine being a girl
  • i could just be deluding myself???
  • i would want to present femininely anyways, forgive me but my ideal self would be a femboy…
  • i would really hate facial hair on myself

now that i’ve written all that out, the chance of me being trans doesnt seem to be zero… though it kind of sucks because i wont be able to experiment with my gender presentation trans or not (e.g cant cut my hair or stuff like that due to circumstances) so i guess ill be stuck as a girl anyways haha

sorry for the incoherent rant

  • chamomile@piefed.blahaj.zone
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    i kind of want to become a guy

    Wanting to be a guy is the #1 sign of being a guy!

    im not dysphoric, im fine being a girl

    You don’t need dysphoria to be trans! Very much not a requirement. If you think you’d be happier as a guy, that’s enough.

    i guess ill be stuck as a girl anyways haha

    but also if the thought of being “stuck as a girl” is upsetting to you then that says a lot. Many trans people find that a lot of the subtle aspects of life that they don’t like and either barely think about or just assume are normal are in fact dysphoria, but it only starts to make sense once they accept themselves.

    i would want to present femininely anyways, forgive me but my ideal self would be a femboy…

    i would really hate facial hair on myself

    These also seem pretty normal and not disqualifying to me. Lots of guys don’t like their facial hair and prefer to be shaved. Lots of guys present femininely and are still guys.

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          Huh, I guess it does look okay on browser, must be a Voyager issue. Almost the whole thing is formatted as a single block quote.

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            Oh wow, that’s really bad. I just checked on a lemmy instance and it has the same issue there, so this must be a discrepancy in how different fedi clients handle line breaks. (I guess voyager by extension probably follows lemmy conventions.) I’ll update my post and try again. It’s frustrating that it’s this inconsistent.