There is an endless chasm between “selfish bitch” and “spineless worm”. You can be selfless and prosocial without being a pushover. Attitudes like that in OP’s meme usually lead to people justifying shitty behavior. In a lot of ways its saying “I’d rather be the abuser than be abused”, and then you’re even worse than the people pleaser.

We’re doubting her because the domestic violence didn’t come up in the court verdict dumbass, not because it makes China look bad.