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  • JillyB@beehaw.orgto196@lemmy.blahaj.zonerule
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    9 days ago

    Thanks for the thorough perspective! The specific space I was thinking of was a gay bar/gay club. There have been a few times when I’ve partied with a group that included a bunch of gay men. Then that group wanted to continue the night at a gay bar and invited me. Even with an invitation, it would feel like invading. I had no idea there was an ally flag. I’ll look into repping that.

    Thanks for all the tips.


  • JillyB@beehaw.orgto196@lemmy.blahaj.zonerule
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    10 days ago

    Queer people: I’m a cis straight man. Would it be ok for me to show some rainbow iconography to show support? I try not to put myself in gay spaces since that’s not for me. Idk if it would come across as like…stolen gay valor or something.

    Side question: is it ok for me to refer to lgbtq+ people as queer? The acronym feels clunky but I’m not sure if this is a “we can say it but not you” situation.

    I understand that the answers may not have broad agreement one way or another but I wanted to do at least a little bit of a temperature check.