My parents did this as well, and I have massive respect for them because of it. Similarly, the only time my dad would yell at me was when something was urgent and dangerous and he needed me to do the thing right then and there’s no time to explain. I knew I could always ask for an explanation after the fact.

Yeah 😞 I only learned about it this year too.

Just gonna drop this off here just in case https://thebaffler.com/outbursts/surely-youre-a-creep-mr-feynman-mcneill