No I’m transitioning into my mom

Real talk though that was something I had to work through. Accepting that to the majority of people I’m going to look strange/odd/offputting and realizing that that’s really not what’s important. As long as I like what I look like, it doesn’t matter what others think.

Varies from person to person. In general I wouldn’t worry about it too much, the way those are used is pretty gender neutral in general even though they can contextually be male. If you know you’re addressing a trans gal maybe make more of an effort for folks but I wouldn’t worry about it too much. If someone tells you it bothers them, then ya know, try not to. In general the litmus test for me is would it be a problem if they were cis? If not, then not a problem by default (if it bothers them, it’s an exception to account for)

Overall, I think it’s silly to be concerned over the use of guys and dudes instead of the tendency to treat everyone on the Internet as male.

The fact you want to be considerate puts you far ahead of the crowd!

Ngl I would absolutely love to have a girlfriend or boyfriend just casually force me down like that

I had a… fwb? visit me this weekend and we sat on the couch and I laid my head in his lap and he stroked my hair and I felt cared for and loved and I wished it never happened because going back to loneliness and self hatred is so much worse than just being lonely and miserable the whole time

How many pounds worth of weighted blankets will it take before I can’t breathe under them