SerialExperimentsGay [she/her, she/her]

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  • Yeah, that checks out. I mean, the entire idea that TERFs would protest anything besides trans people existing is already so brainwormed, you can immediately tell this guy does not fully understand what TERFs are because he only knows them as that one lesbian couple he’s been friends with for 30 years. He very obviously just doesn’t understand that literally every single TERF protest is 10 people all employed at the same billionaire sponsored hate group standing around with several thousand euros worth of camera equipment and a bunch of professionally printed signs with workshopped designs and slogans to produce footage for a handful of fashy news outlets. In his mind, transphobia in the queer community is just a quirk of his friends Susan and Carol who used to be in the Lesbian Avengers and are now running an antiques shop and a dog pension in a sea bath in Cornwall and are falsely blaming trans women for the fact they have not been to a lesbian bar since 1992. I would immediately believe him if he told me how he thinks that Susan and Carol are very, very wrong about trans women, but i am very certain he does not understand how they fit into the organized queerphobia ecosystem because he is in a place now that is very far from the front. His heart is certainly not in the worst place, but his material conditions shield him from seeing all the nasty details.



  • Hven’t seen Tip Toe, but idk if it’s a genuinely British thing, it may just be boomer brainworms at play here. Don’t get me wrong, i don’t like doing generation wars, i absolutely stand with older queers who’ve weathered the mishandling of the AIDS pandemic, fought against Section 28 or §175 etc., i value their lasting contributions to queer organizing that i benefit from myself all the time BUT with all that said, even the most admirable activists from the 20th century who understand that we cannot win by kowtowing to the straights and playing the respectability politics game are products of their time and will fail to grasp the full extend of the brainworms that the co-opted pick mes in gay and lesbian spaces have.

    When i see the trifecta of transphobia, no kink at pride and homonationalism, i know that’s a person who will side with our enemy until their night of long knives comes. And that applies all over the imperial core, not just in the UK. They will not see how wrong they are until they get Ernst Röhmed between the ribs. And being too mild and naive in the judgement of that likewise applies to older queers all over the imperial core. When decent, well-meaning people who were friends with the respectability squad before they suckered up to JKR and Trump look at these losers they used to hang out with, they have rose-tinted glasses on and lie to themselves that the TERFs or the log cabin republican or the revisionist grifter will come around when the leopard starts nibbling at their face. They won’t, and i don’t know how to tell this to somebody who’s in the same boat as Russel T. Davies.






  • Infrared probably refers to Haz al Din, an obscure reactionary pseudo-marxist clown (unlike with Dieudonné, the comedy seems to be unintentional in his case). Imagine somebody randomly sprinkling “material conditions” over an excerpt from Project 2025, wordfiltering “gender ideology” for “Malthusianism” while retaining the transphobia and so on. He is mostly known for his, admittedly funny, shocked reaction when people on stream convinced him that girlcum is pee (author’s note: it is not actually pee) and for making an account on hexbear and telling people that smoking weed has a feminizing effect.

    I would normally resent that i know this, but in his case streamer drama is actually mildly entertaining in an absurdist way.





  • You could stop responding. Would be better at this point, honestly. You’re already making up strawmen like “you claim that anti-genocide people are transphobes” when nobody said anything like that anywhere. I brought up the example to prove that yes, we do have transmisogynists like @[email protected] on here and they go mask off every time you poke them a little.

    My point isn’t to defend Natalie’s takes on Gaza, not only because they are indefensible but because her position on the genocide isn’t even the topic of this thread, it wasn’t the topic of the last contrapoints hate thread three days ago either, it is barely ever brought up in spite of the fact that we collectively tear into her twice a week. My point is that the excessive focus on her is a symptom of hexbears’ transmisogyny problem that nobody except the trans women on this site is ever willing to adress. Stop making up excuses for what is obviously transmisogyny, stop telling trans women that we cannot tell it’s transmisogyny.

    You even go out of your way and say “this is the same as people making up lies about Hasan’s dog.” You openly admit that this has reached the point of character assassination where it doesn’t even matter anymore if an accusation is completely fabricated. and where the original problem that made somebody an acceptable target is now only trotted out as a flimsy after-the-fact justification. How am i supposed to treat somebody who thinks that kind of behavior is not only normal, but perfectly acceptable?







  • Nothing in the law prevents businesses from having only a women’s restroom and letting all men pee in the yard.

    srs tho, these laws are never designed to be taken at face value, it’s always entirely about the transphobia and any fallout is shrugged off. Everybody behind this stuff knows this. None of them care about the inevitable consequences of running on fairytale bullshit like objective, binary and immutable biological sex. It’s the same as telling a terf that her definition of woman excludes intersex cis women. People think that’s a gotcha, but leading terfs like Janice Raymond have outright stated that it doesn’t bother them. Just as it doesn’t bother any British transphobe that passing trans people are possibly forbidden from using any public restroom now.

    The cruelty is the point. If there is unintended additional cruelty, it is gleefully taken as a bonus.